Girlfriend before friends?

Question

I'm not a bad girlfriend, all I ask is for some time with my boyfriend.

When he tells me to come over his house, he's always on the computer or on his xbox 360. I end up sitting there for hours reading stories from my phone and he'll rub my back or legs or grab my hand while he's talking to his from on the xbox.

When we were getting ready to have sex, we were nude and out of nowhere he grabbed his phone and called his friend, asking him "should I stay here and do my girlfriend or go to my friends house and play on the xbox will him (of course you)

Its so annoying, I talk to him about it and he got pissed and told me "what about the times I spent the whole day with you"

Yes its true but that was before when we would watch movies, make love and talk. Nowadays it's not like that and all the movies we have seen already.

We both have no money at the moment.

He's goes back to work in three weeks. I'm looking for a job.

I wrote to him today and said "I don't mind that your with your friends, but don't ask me to come over and expect me to sit there while your not even talking to me.

When you are with your friends...your friends goes before your girlfriend. When you are with me, I go before your friends. I don't mind that your with them but I do mind when your with me and all you ever want to do is talk to your friends"

My question is...am I wrong? Do you think this will work out? I've been with this guy for three months and he told me yesterdat that "all women has a need of changing a man"

-sighs- I know this is changing but I'm tired of feeling like a sex object.

I come in his house, sit there until he leads me to the room, we have sex and then he's like "I'm bored...I should go to my friends house"

It pisses me off. I'm trying to talk to him about it, he hasn't answer me back...what should I do? Am I right? 10 points!

Answer 1

No disrespect but he's a loser. He reminds me of my ex. If you've only been with him for 3 months and he's already losing interest he needs to get lost. Tell him that you have better things to do than be his sex toy when ever he feels the urge to screw. tell him to screw one of his friends!...Sorry I'm having flash backs of my EX!...LOL. But for real I really think you should find someone better. Some one who could never be bored around you...and if so y'all will enjoy being bored together. Tell him to Kick Rocks!!

Answer 2

That guy you call your boyfriend is not your boyfriend. He is a real jerk. He's not into you. He have a lot more on his mind than spending so Quality time with you. Wasting more time with that dumb ***, You will only be hurting yourself more and more. If you use your Intuition, which is that little man that talk to you. The one that stand on your shoulder. he will tell you, you will know when something wrong or is not right. Your boyfriend have to be losing interest in women or his true self is coming out. Out the closet. He might be GAY. He have you over at his house, spending time and still choose to call his friends. You know what Leave that dumb *** loser. You can find a much better person that would like to spend time with you. Peace Sister. 1luv.

Answer 3

And you have sex with him?