Is it insensitive to ask details on a friend's loved one's passing?

Question

Is it insensitive to ask details on a friend's loved one's passing?

Answer 1

The better approach is to ask if there is anything you can do. Offer condolences and let him know how sorry your are for his loss and that you care about how the family is doing.



If he wants to open up he will. Don't press the issue with too many questions. How he died is really unimportant right now. Asking those types of questions turns the situation into being about you and not them. The focus needs to remain on him and his family needs.



Be sensitive and supportive, not inquisitive and curious.

Answer 2

Well it isnt really insensative. The friend just might not want to talk about it because it makes them sad. If you want to know you have to have patience. Just say "if you are too upset right now, just know that you can talk to me about it".

Answer 3

Let the friend know you fell sorry for them but let them decide how much to say.